Erotic Massage
Erotic massage is one of life’s great pleasures—you owe it to your lover (and yourself) to create the experience. Your goal is simple: to bring your partner to a point, before sex, where she thinks: “This is the most wonderful thing I’ve ever felt”—what else is there in life?
Then she finds out.
Feet, hands and lips, some of the smallest parts of the body, have the greatest sensual potential. Five minutes of foot massage will show your partner what she’s been missing.
Combining massage with sex magnifies the power of both experiences. If you have been searching for an aphrodisiac, a way to ignite your sex life, try this.
Basic Fireworks
Erotic massage turns sex into a sensual feast, which is only fair: if you’re not generous with your partner during sex, when will you be? Prepare for the feast by firmly rejecting the fast food approach: routinely rubbing your partner’s body a few inches away from the genitals while methodically working toward orgasm.
Instead, move sensation out to the sensually starved parts of the body for now, the genitals will take care of themselves. You will give up nothing during erotic massage, you will only add to the possibilities.
Pleasure censorship
Is your partner afraid to feel unusual sensations—or any sensations on certain parts of the body? Don’t give her an argument, give her a massage. We are taught to ration our pleasures or deny them altogether. You can use massage to liberate your partner’s body. Massage is becoming an important tool for therapists who seek to develop a patient’s sexuality. Long-shut doors swing open; people change permanently.
Think of erotic massage as play, even fantasy. You have a combination that even the pampered rich cannot better: your educated touch and your lover’s body. Dim the lights, turn on some quiet music, and place your oil nearby.
If ever mind and body will merge for your lover, they will do so now.