Sensual Massage Made Simple

The massage gift

Friday, November 14th, 2008 | Uncategorized | No Comments

Have you ever considered giving your lover an experience instead of an object during the holiday season? Why not give a massage? It’s easy, even if you’ve never tried it before, and it wont cost you anything. The moment you begin massaging, your partner will understand that no gift could possibly be more personal.

Massage provides both profound relaxation and drugless relief from stress, even pain. Afterward, a delightful physical high will last for hours, even days.

And when your partner remembers that great feeling, you will come to mind.

Where does stress come from?

Monday, November 10th, 2008 | Uncategorized | No Comments

In massage we think of stress as a physical, not a mental problem. Masseurs recognize that the “after work blues,” like other stress-related complaints, originates in the body, not the mind. Indeed, once you eliminate the physical manifestations of stress with massage, a host of “emotional” problems begin to disappear.

Quick set-ups for massage

Thursday, October 30th, 2008 | Uncategorized | No Comments

Unplug the phone and dim the lights. Make sure your massage surface is warm. Have a squeeze bottle filled with warm light, vegetable oil handy. Lay out towels nearby. Bring a pillow.

Put on your partner’s favorite music. If you must speak, your tone is more important than what is actually said.

During the massage itself, everything your partner experiences is simply felt.

Massage Tips

Wednesday, October 22nd, 2008 | Uncategorized | No Comments

This is in response to recent emails asking for “startup” massage tips. Keep these in mind so your partner can focus on the massage——and nothing else.

DO

Be sure your partner’s head and torso are supported
Include the whole upper back
Be sure your partner’s eyes are closed
Warm your hands first

DON’T

Massage while your partner does something else
“Dig in” under the vertebrae and bony shoulder area
Put pressure directly on the spine
Massage under a bright overhead light

I’ll add more massage tips here soon.

Edward Weston Documentary

Sunday, October 12th, 2008 | Reviews | No Comments

Eloquent Nude: The love and legacy of Edward Weston and Charis Wilson

Last night I saw a finely-crafted new documentary of Weston’s life and work, narrated in part by his lover, Charis Wilson. Modern photographers who work with nudes will always be indebted to Weston. His courageous photographs, shot during a much more conservative era–and with primitive equipment–still take your breath away. Charis, his muse, model, assistant and partner for many years, now in her tenth decade, quite obviously still loves him. As do we all…

The financial crisis: what to do now

Thursday, October 9th, 2008 | Uncategorized | No Comments

Is the whole country having a nervous breakdown?

People are becoming desperate for a way to relax and get some sleep. We know that pills extract a price hours or even days later. Why not give your partner a massage instead of a pill? There are no side effects to massage and it works to relax the whole body. You will see results in minutes and the longer you continue, the more relaxed your partner will become.

That’s one of the things human hands can do: ease tension.

PROFILE: Rama Wong, designer of “Sensual Massage Made Simple”

Tuesday, October 7th, 2008 | Uncategorized | No Comments

In 2007 I worked with Rama Wong on a beautiful new cover for Massage for a Peaceful Pregnancy, Ever since, I’d been anxious to see what he could do with a whole new book. Sensual Massage Made Simple gave us the chance to start from scratch with an entirely new project. I wanted an ergonomic design; something that would reflect the beauty of massage while allowing the reader to move directly into a hands-on experience. The layflat binding gave Rama the maximum page surface to work with in an economical 6X9 format.

After many iterations, Rama came up with a design that brings the reader right into the massage experience. Indeed, many of the pages have an almost filmic quality; you can almost feel the strokes move from one part of the body to another.

Here is Rama Wong’s Linkedin profile:

Preview “SENSUAL MASSAGE MADE SIMPLE” on Google Bookscan

Saturday, October 4th, 2008 | Uncategorized | No Comments

Now you can sample selected pages from the book on Google Bookscan. This site offers a more comprehensive selection of actual pages than Amazon.com. Colors are a bit cooler than the book itself but the quality is good. You will get a sense here of how the book works as a massage guide.

Who is being “Highly inappropriate?”

Wednesday, October 1st, 2008 | Uncategorized | No Comments

A third grade teacher in Florida is about to be crucified for asking her students to rub her upper back. Men often feel job-related tension in the lower back, women freeze up around the neck and shoulders.

We live in a sensually frigid society, where virtually all touching between adults has been forced into two rigid categories: sexual or commercial. Outside of purely sexual touching, everyone goes out of their way to remain as impersonal as possible. This is from the introduction to my book THE ART OF SENSUAL MASSAGE:

“Since nearly all physical contact is construed as potentially sexual, people constantly avoid touching each other. Those licensed to touch, like Doctors, Barbers and Hairdressers and Tailors, are careful to remain as impersonal as possible lest they be accused of making an advance. The simple fact remains, however, that you can use your hands to bring immense pleasure to another human being without the coldness of traditional therapy and outside the intimacies of sex—I call it the sensual.”

I wrote that back in 1972. I had hoped we had made some progress since then in permitting our citizens to touch each other. I do hope this poor woman can be left alone and restored to her job. Teaching is stressful enough. If the kids can’t be permitted to massage a teacher’s neck and shoulders, maybe the parents can.

“SEARCH INSIDE THE BOOK” activated on Amazon.com!

Tuesday, September 30th, 2008 | Reviews | No Comments

Readers can now sample selected high quality scans from Sensual Massage Made Simple on the book’s Amazon.com page. Happily, the book’s extraordinary photo quality does come through. Here are two samples from the book: